Relationships: 'Thinking/Guessing'

​Relationships: it only takes one to make a war, but it takes two to make peace.

The problems so often can begin with us thinking we know what the other person wants, but not actually knowing what they want.

If we stay in that position of ‘thinking-guessing’ we can quite unintentionally lock ourselves into a mind-set that will almost guarantee that we will become angry or offended by the other person – it will happen because guesses are a poor substitute for knowledge.
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Take the time to find out what your partner wants; if they won’t be honest about that, then best move on and find someone who will be honest.